What are we doing with Our Future?
Of all the disturbing reports on the treatment of Nia Glassie, perhaps the hardest to believe is that this wee girl
sustained abuse, over weeks- perhaps months. People must have seen. Someone should have contacted the authorities. This
level of abuse has to be a community issue and the only way we can attack our appalling child abuse statistics is by
dealing with it as such. We can no longer afford to stand by and witness the breakdown of our family structure. Every
child in New Zealand is precious; they are our future and should be given every opportunity to reach their full
potential. We need to do more at a policy level than shake our heads in disgust and wait for the next horrific incident.
We must identify, right from the outset, those children most at risk and target resources to their parents and
caregivers. Our expensive public education system includes no compulsory content or training on child development, on
the critical importance of the first three years of life. Undeniably, all New Zealand communities would benefit from
better parenting support and assistance but inevitably some more than others: those historically disadvantaged, often
from the bottom of the socio-economic spectrum, young parents from a deprived background who have received little care
and affection, who have little education, with early childhood experiences of domestic violence, abuse, alcohol and drug
dependency, poor parenting and educational disadvantage. These high-risk parents are identifiable from early pregnancy.
There are community organisations out there to provide the necessary help and assistance. But are they getting to those
most in need before it's too late? Nia’s situation again highlights urgent need for discussion around Cindy Kiro’s
comprehensive tracking plan, or Graeme MacCormick’s idea for a universal welfare and needs assessment for every child at
birth.
If Nia survives this appalling abuse; even if she doesn’t have clinical brain damage, how much damage would her
developing brain have received during the prolonged abuse that will have changed her life forever? New Zealand’s
inexcusable youth crime statistics are populated with young offenders whose young lives are scattered with incidents of
chronic maltreatment, parent inflicted injury, complete failure of attachment –all culminating in damaged impulse
control. If Nia survives this, will she be at high risk of joining the ranks of feared young offenders?
It is imperative that every New Zealander involved with young children knows the critical ‘brain building’ importance of
the first three years of life, and how to help give children the best start. This is what will shape our society.
Kim van Duiven
Executive Director
On behalf of
The Brainwave Trust
The Brainwave Trust’s focus is on the first three years and our science based research tells us that healthy attachment
is fundamental to our well being and in the main, occurs in those first few years. It determines so much of who we are
and what happens to us in later life. When healthy attachment occurs, it significantly reduces the amount of community
resources being spent at the bottom of the cliff on child welfare and longer term on adult welfare and judiciary costs
for the problem areas of our society. We provide early intervention and education.
ENDS