Online dating fever at record levels
More Kiwi singles are turning to the internet to find a date for New Year’s Eve than ever before, with Trade Me’s dating
website FindSomeone reporting record highs for activity levels.
Over the past week, more than 240,000 messages and smiles have been sent by Find Someone members, up 67 per cent on the
same period last year. The number of new members signing up has also spiked, up 38 per cent on a year ago.
FindSomeone manager Rick Davies said it was the busiest the site had been since it was founded back in 2001, and dating
fever was set to continue. “With lonely hearts in a frantic search for a date for New Year, these levels are likely to
keep ramping up in the lead-in to Monday night.”
Mr Davies said the social awkwardness of being an online dater was a thing of the past. “We’ve seen an incredible rise
in online dating in New Zealand in 2012 – it has been a record-breaking year for activity and demonstrates the old
school social taboo around meeting someone online is well and truly out the door.”
Mr Davies said online dating had hit the mainstream. “Not only is internet dating a normal and acceptable way for
couples to meet, but it works too. A recent American study found that online dating was the second most common way to
find a partner, behind meeting someone via a mutual friendship.”
The national picture
Mr Davies said growth in site usage was stronger in the South Island in 2012 with Otago leading the way, but Auckland
remained the “engine room” of the online dating scene.
“Auckland has the most members, and it’s also the most ethnically diverse region for online dating in New Zealand. For
example, you’re three times more likely to find a date of Asian descent in Auckland than you are in Canterbury or
Wellington.”
On FindSomeone, the typical male online dater is aged 38, of NZ European descent, weighs 83kg, is 1.79m tall and holds
some form of tertiary qualification. Twenty per cent of male daters have children.
A typical female dater on the site is aged 39, of NZ European descent, weighs 64kg, is 1.66m tall, and also holds a
university qualification. Thirty-one per cent have at least one child.
Dating gets mobile
Mr Davies said the availability of mobile technology was a significant driver of dating activity. “Checking out member
profiles while on the go is part and parcel of online dating for Kiwis now, with a massive 29 per cent of visits to
FindSomeone over the past month coming via mobile devices, up from 15 per cent a year ago.
“With more smartphones and tablets in hands and pockets, there’s no doubt there will be lots of dates teed up from
baches and campsites this summer,” Mr Davies said.
FindSomeone also has a ‘Who’s near me’ feature to help locate other Kiwi singles nearby and usage leapt nine per cent in
December. “It’s just a nice, simple way for Kiwi singles to get in touch and meet up for a drink or a game of beach
cricket.”
FindSomeone statistics
1. National
Past week Change (%)*
New members 1,540 + 39
Messages sent 180,039 + 65
Smiles sent 63,936 + 77
Member log ins 304,539 + 50
*Year-on-year for week of December 21-27
2. Regional
Region Smiles sent (%) * New members (%) *
Auckland + 56 + 28
Bay of Plenty + 71 + 23
Canterbury + 98 + 42
Hawke’s Bay + 117 + 36
Manawatu + 88 + 95
Marlborough + 94 + 47
Nelson Bays + 50 + 63
Northland + 70 + 28
Otago + 120 + 94
Southland + 95 + 15
Taranaki + 88 + 94
Timaru/Oamaru + 88 + 30
Waikato + 142 + 67
Wairarapa + 111 + 11
Wanganui + 138 + 89
Wellington + 81 + 18
West Coast + 101 + 15
* Year-on-year for week of December 21-27
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