THE SOCIETY FOR THE PROMOTION OF COMMUNITY STANDARDS INC.
P.O. Box 13-683 Johnsonville SPCSNZ@hotmail.com
22 November 2004
Civil Union Supporters Confused
''Love doesn't discriminate and neither should the law,'' is the deluded catchcry of the very confused individuals
promoting the Civil Union Bill. Young Labour President, Michael Wood, has made this call. Conor Roberts, a spokesperson
for the Campaign for Civil Unions, has said it too. Campaign for Civil Unions (Auckland) Inc.
Co-ordinator, Michael Wallmannsberger, and the 1,000 odd people, including Tim Barnett, the chairperson of the select
committee considering the Bill, who helped fund a $16,000 full-page advertisement in the Sunday Star Times supporting
the Bill, also appear to believe it is true. The Labour-led Government and its hangers-on seem are in the main similarly
The last time we heard this nonsense was from the lips of a young blonde "hooker" who was interviewed in a recent TV3
documentary that screened at 7.30 p.m. The programme investigating the 'glamorous' lifestyle of an older Wellington
"whorehouse" operator (yes the TV female interviewer used the term "whorehouse" and "hooker").
The interviewer asked the prostitute whether she felt repulsed by some of the men who paid for her sexual services and
whether she ever chose to withhold them from any unsavoury males.
The "hooker" was forthright in her reply denying that she had ever shown any discrimination towards her male clients.
All her clients were as worthy as any other of her love and sexual favours she said. She was there to perform a service
and therefore she saw it as a virtue to show no favours or discrimination provided the money had been paid up front for
Anyone in a committed relationship of marriage who would defend this approach to love-making has no understanding of
real love. The sleazy counterfeit offered and defended by a "hooker" and accepted by her clients does conform to the
"love doesn’t discriminate" philosophy claimed by its supporters to undergird the Civil Union Bill.
It may be news to the promoters of the Bill that love DOES discriminate. Let any husband try and convince his wife that
love does not discriminate and he will soon find out that he is speaking nonsense! Let any wife try and convince her
husband the same nonsense!
To claim that love does NOT discriminate is an utter absurdity!
The unique love that forms the basis of the marriage partnership is exclusively confined to that between a man and a
woman and NOT to same-sex couples. Only that kind of love has the potential to lead to children who are united
biologically with both life-long committed parents - comprising both a mother (wife) and a father (husband).
To claim that the actions and motivation of love is equivalent to the proper application of the law is an absurdity! It
is a given that the law is blind. Genuine love that undergirds marriage is not blind. It discriminates!
While the law can be applied by judges who are often able to apply genuine discretion, they do so only within certain
defined narrow constraints. Marriage sets the expectations of definite boundaries to partners as it is inherently a
monogamous relationship that is formed on the basis of life-long commitment, trust, fidelity, faithfulness and genuine
The claim that the law must not discriminate is correct, providing the law is being applied to persons who have
committed truly EQUIVALENT acts. That is why on conviction of an offence under the law, different convicted individuals
who commit the SAME offence, must be treated equally when sentencing is carried out by the Courts. Offences are defined
within specified categories and thereby in sentencing, equivalent acts must be treated the same way in law.
A marriage is NOT equivalent to a de facto relationship (same-sex or heterosexual). Marriage is NOT the equivalent of a
civil union under the proposed bill, as marriage can never be applied to same-sex couples, based on its unique
character. It is just to discriminate between relationships that are fundamentally different.
Marriage is fundamentally and undeniably different from a civil union and the law must recognise this. It is not the
task of the law to treat the two as equivalent. This is exactly what the civil union bill does. It is fundamentally
It is reminiscent of the Prostitution Reform Act that treats the work of prostitutes and those who run businesses of
prostitution as though it was legitimate work, thereby sending out a clear message that it is an occupation worthy of
consideration as a source of employment for young women. Prostitution is treated under the law as a business like any
other and yet it is fundamentally different from every other form of legitimate business.