Celebrating Families 14 June 2004
Judith Collins
14 June 2004
National Party Family Spokesperson
Lack of emphasis on family The only word I can think of to describe the budget was disappointing. Having been told that
the budget would be called working for families, I held out some hope that there really would be an emphasis on
supporting the family unit.
Minister Steve Maharey, however, summed up the emphasis on family by writing in his press release that "parenting is
society's most important job". Statements like that show how out of touch the government is. Parenting is the role of
parents, not something called society. It certainly is not the role of the State unless all else fails.
On a positive note, I was pleased that there was recognition of the mentoring role for older New Zealanders to help
support struggling younger families.
Free early childhood education provision a farce Indications are that 25,000 young children will be automatically
excluded from an "entitlement" of 20 hours free attendance at early childhood centres. Children will only receive the
free childhood education if they attend community-owned centres. This cuts out 1,000 privately run childhood education
centres.
The centres favoured by the Government are kindergartens, kohanga reo and the ethnically based centres. The problem is
that for many young families in my electorate, there is no kindergarten available anywhere near them and for many others
the kindergartens are full and won't take children until they are 4 years old. The reality is that many parents -
particularly those who are in the paid workforce - will get no help with the cost of early childhood education. They
can't get their children into the kindergartens and even if they are able, the hours offered make it impossible to hold
down a job.
Having received complaints that some kindergartens will not allow children to celebrate Christmas or Easter - it's too
politically incorrect - I'm sure that many parents will prefer the freedom to choose that the private providers are able
to give even if they have to pay for this themselves.
Charter of Parental Rights and Responsibilities Like many other parents, I'm tired of being told by Government ministers
that parents don't have rights, just responsibilities. The emphasis on children's rights over the last 30 years doesn't
seem to have led to a dramatic drop in children being killed by so called parental substitutes. The way I see the
situation, a child is not able to enforce "rights" so that means that the State takes on the role instead, forcing
parents into some kind of parental wilderness.
When I hear of Schools refusing to discuss a child's progress with his parents, that a girl aged 12 can have an abortion
without her parents even knowing, I believe that it is time for a charter of Parents' rights and responsibilities.
Feedback and ideas from frustrated parents will be gratefully received.
ENDS