Media Release
15 July 2008
“Sorry” seems to be such a little word
The blunders that led to a pregnant woman being ‘forced to have an abortion’ are likely to be just the tip of an
unbearably destructive iceberg.
That a misdiagnosis at an Auckland laboratory should occur is regrettable. For that diagnosis to then be the basis on
which a woman is advised to terminate her pregnancy is unbearable. That the woman was subsequently forced to have an
abortion and still no one is responsible is unbelievable.
Comments from David Sage, the Auckland Health Board Medical Officer that the Board has offered its ‘deepest apologies’
to the family may be true, but surely ring just a little hollow.
For what, exactly, is the Board sorry? Sorry about the mix up at the lab, obviously. Sorry about telling this woman she
had no other choice but to agree to abort her pregnancy? Sorry for carrying out the abortion? Sorry that no one
double-checked or challenged the information that was about to end a life and change who knows how many others forever?
Sorry for not giving this woman any other options?
What the Board might in fact be sorriest about, is that there is no way of knowing if this woman and her family or
indeed the medical staff who instructed her, will ever receive the help required to resolve the issues which ending the
life of another inevitably raise.
Those counselling post-abortive women tell of a kind of grief, unlike any other.
According to Voice For Life member Catherine Gillies, who has been involved in counselling post-abortion women for over
15 years, “The issues raised by abortion are incredibly complex. It takes a great deal of support, compassion and
absolute honesty for people to even begin to think about it.”
It has taken the Dominion Post over four months to begin to receive answers to questions raised about this event. The
Auckland DHB has admitted they, “Now have a responsibility to implement the appropriate systems and process changes to
ensure we are doing everything we can to stop an incident like this happening in the future.”
What the DHB does not appear to be saying to the woman who was forced into abortion, is how she might begin to
contemplate a way through her grief, brought about by the very people she turned to for help.
ENDS